100 Questions to Ask Your Crush
Talking to a crush is easier when you have a good question ready. These are light, clean and fun, and most work just as well over text as in person. Pick two or three that fit the moment, listen to the answer, and let the chat go from there.
Easy openers
- What was the best part of your week so far?
- You get a free afternoon with zero plans. What do you do with it?
- Are you a morning person or a night person?Example: up at 6 / up at noon / depends on the day
- What song have you had on repeat lately?
- You walk into a party where you know nobody. What is your move?Example: find the food / find the dog / talk to anyone / leave early
- What is something small that always puts you in a good mood?
- Your friend group plans a trip. Are you the planner or the one who just shows up?Example: the planner / just shows up / the one who books food
- What is a show you would happily watch again from the start?
- You find some money in an old jacket. What do you spend it on first?
- What did you want to be when you were a little kid?
- Which place near here do you think is underrated?
- Tea, coffee or neither?Example: tea / coffee / neither / both, all day
- What is the last thing that made you laugh out loud?
- You get to skip one chore forever. Which one?
Over text
- Send me the last photo you took that you are allowed to share.
- Rate your day out of 10. What would make it a 10?Example: a nap / good food / no homework
- What is the most used emoji on your phone right now?
- You can only text in song lyrics for a day. Which song do you start with?
- What are you doing right now, honestly?
- Voice notes: love them or hate them?Example: love them / hate them / only from close friends
- If your phone battery hits 1%, who gets your last text?
- What app do you open first when you wake up?
- Tell me one random thing about your day that I would never guess.
- You can describe your mood with one GIF. What is it?
- Do you reply right away or leave people on read for hours?Example: right away / when I remember / depends who it is
- What is a song you would send someone to cheer them up?
- Quick: pizza or burgers, and you can only pick one for a year.
- What is the funniest autocorrect fail you have ever sent?
Fun and silly
- You wake up as a cat for a day. What is the first thing you do?
- Which would you pick: fly or be invisible?Example: fly / invisible / neither, too much stress
- A movie is made about your life. What kind of movie is it?Example: comedy / drama / action / cartoon
- You can only eat one snack for the rest of your life. Which one?
- What is the weirdest food combo you secretly love?
- You get to rename the days of the week. What do you call Monday?
- A zombie movie starts tomorrow. How long do you last?Example: first scene / halfway / the hero at the end
- What is your most useless talent?
- You can talk to one kind of animal. Which one, and what do you ask it?
- What would your name be as a wrestler or a superhero?
- You get stuck in a lift with one famous person. Who do you hope it is?
- Socks with sandals: crime or comfort?Example: crime / comfort / only at home
- What is a silly fear you have that makes no sense?
- You can add one new rule at school or work. What is it?
- If you were a pizza topping, which one would you be?
- What is the worst haircut you have ever had?
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Get to know them
- You have a big test or deadline tomorrow. What do you do?Example: started last week / cram all night / panic, then cram
- How do you spend a lazy Sunday?Example: sleep in / sports / series all day / out with friends
- Who in your life makes you laugh the most?
- What is something you are really good at that most people do not know?
- You get to learn any skill in a week. What do you pick?
- What is a food from your family or culture that you love?
- When you are stressed, what do you do to feel better?Example: music / a walk / food / talk to someone
- What is a place you really want to visit one day?
- Your friends are fighting. Are you the one who fixes it or stays out of it?
- What is the best gift anyone has ever given you?
- You get one free class in anything. What do you sign up for?
- Do you like big groups or a few close friends?Example: big groups / a few close ones / one best friend
- What is a hobby you want to try but have not started yet?
- What is the best advice anyone has given you?
- You get a whole day to do whatever you want with no money limit. What is the plan?
- Which three words would your best friend use to describe you?
A little flirty
- What is the first thing you notice about someone?
- What is your idea of a perfect first hangout?Example: coffee / a movie / a long walk / a fair
- You get a cute note in your bag. Do you want it signed or anonymous?
- What is the best compliment you have ever got?
- Do you think I would be a good partner on a road trip? Why?
- Cheesy pickup lines: cute or cringe?Example: cute / cringe / cute only if they are bad on purpose
- What song would play if our first meeting was a movie scene?
- You get to plan a surprise for someone you like. What do you do?
- What is one thing that instantly makes someone more attractive to you?
- Have you ever had a crush on someone for way too long without telling them?
- Would you rather get flowers, food or a playlist?Example: flowers / food / a playlist / all three
- What is something you think I would be really good at?
- Holding hands in public: sweet or too much?Example: sweet / too much / only sometimes
- If we hung out this weekend, what would you want to do?
Deeper
- What is something you are proud of that you do not talk about much?
- Who is a person who changed how you see the world?
- What makes you feel most like yourself?Example: music / sports / being with friends / time alone
- You could tell your younger self one thing. What would it be?
- What is a goal you have for the next year?
- What is something people often get wrong about you?
- When was the last time you felt really happy?
- What matters most to you in a friend?Example: honesty / humor / loyalty / showing up
- What is a small thing someone did for you that you still remember?
- If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
- What is something you are scared of trying but still want to do?
- What does a really good day look like for you?
To find out if they like you back
- Who is the person you text the most right now?
- Do you like anyone at the moment?Example: yes / maybe / not telling / ask me later
- What is your type, if you have one?
- You see a message from me pop up. What is your first thought?
- Would you go to an event with me if I asked?Example: yes / depends on the event / ask and find out
- What made you start talking to me in the first place?
- Is it easier for you to say how you feel in person or over text?Example: in person / over text / neither, I panic
- Have you ever liked someone and been too shy to say it?
- What is one thing you like about talking to me?
- If someone liked you, how would you want them to tell you?
- Do you believe in crushes turning into something real?
- Would you rather be asked out or do the asking?Example: be asked / do the asking / does not matter
- What would you say if I told you I had a crush on someone in this chat?
- Be honest: did you smile when you saw my name just now?
Questions in our quiz
Our quiz has its own set of questions with ready answers to pick from. See the quiz questions.
More lists: Questions to ask your best friend, Would you rather questions, Questions to ask your boyfriend.
Common Questions
How many questions should I ask my crush at once?
Two or three is plenty. Ask one, really listen to the answer, and ask a follow-up before you move on. A chat that feels like a back-and-forth beats a long list of questions fired one after another.
Which questions are best to start with?
Start with the easy openers or the fun and silly ones, since they are low pressure and fun to answer. Save the deeper questions and the ones about liking someone for when the chat is already going well.
Can I use these questions over text?
Yes. Most of them work well over text, and the "Over text" group is made for it. Keep messages short, add your own answer so it does not feel like a test, and do not worry if they take a while to reply.
How do I know if my crush likes me back?
No single answer will tell you for sure. Notice if they ask you questions back, keep the chat going and seem happy to hear from you. If you want to know, the kindest way is to ask them in a simple, honest way and accept whatever they say.
Can I turn these questions into a quiz?
Yes. On this site you can make a free quiz about yourself with 20 questions, no account needed. Share the link with your crush or your friends, and their scores show on a leaderboard so you can see who knows you best.
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